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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Sleeping and other stuff

Since Finn was born, he has pretty much insisted on sleeping in our arms particularly during the day. He would need a nap and you could get him to go to sleep, but the minute you put him down he would wake up and tell us how displeased he was at being put down. So, we would pick him up and sooth and repeat. It never ended well and we have mainly been resorting to holding him or wearing him to get him some good nap time. Some days I absolutely love cuddling a sleeping boy, but other days I really stress over not being able to get much done. Well, as he approaches 3 months-old, we are trying to put him down more often. It is not often successful, but every once in awhile he surprises us by sleeping in his bouncy chair. I have also had a lot of success with having him sleep in his car seat. I take him for a walk in it and he falls asleep, then he just sleeps in there when we get home (which is actually where he is while I write this post).
As for nighttime, he has been better about sleeping in his bassinet. We would hold him through the evening and then when we were ready for bed, we would put him in the bassinet. Since it is right next to our bed, if he woke up when we put him down, I can drape my arm around him and he will usually fall back asleep. But this week, we have decided to be more diligent about a bedtime routine in hopes of getting him into bed a little before Sean and I crash. We decided Sean would come home and we would play with Finn and make dinner. Then after dinner, it is bath time for Finn, nurse, read a book, and rock to sleep. Seemed reasonable in our heads. Well, he decided to throw a loop into our plans by actually falling asleep in his bouncy seat during dinner (never happens). Then of course he was wide awake for bath time and subsequent routine. So, we got through our 'bedtime routine' with a wide awake baby. It took us another hour to get him to go to sleep. But, on the upside, we did put him down around 8:45 and he stayed sleeping in his bassinet while Sean and I stayed in the living room until we were ready for bed. I guess it will take time for all of us to figure out a good pattern. I think he is still too young to really get into any kind of routine, but we will keep on trying and hopefully working with his natural sleeping needs too. Moms, I would love to hear your bedtime routines!

On Sunday, I ran an errand and came back to find this picture on our camera:

One of Finn's fussy moments:

Sean got a new fly rod with a gift certificate he got for Christmas. It breaks down into six pieces so it is good for travel. Here he is putting it together and testing it out. Can you see these two along a river?

There is definitely one member of this family who is not having any trouble sleeping:

7 comments:

B said...

OMG, I love the picture of Lily on your couch. Our kitten Rey will sleep with C in her crib only because she doesn't kick him. We're still a work in progress for sleeping by himself. Right now he's in the crib but last night we co-slept all night. Oh well. Learning process all around.

Anonymous said...

Hi Sadie, Gina gave me your blog. I have to tell you Finn is so cute I just love his red hair!
Jenny Perry-Haynes

Sadie said...

Hey Jenny! Great to see you in the blogosphere. I hope you are doing well. Cheers!

Anonymous said...

I love the picture with Finn and Lily...she loves her boy! They are going to be best friends....kinda like Marley & Me!!!

Mrs. S said...

As you know, Emily is my anti-sleep child. We used the No Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers with her and it worked. I cannot do the whole cry it out thing. It's so hard to get them into those routines, but so worth it. It was a lot easier the second time around (we got the same book but the infant version with Rach) and now our routine is like clockwork. If only there was something to keep Em from waking me up at 5:00 every morning. You'll find a routine that works for you and hopefully you'll have fewer sleepless night than I had!

He is the cutest boy ever and Rachel is still calling him "my Finnbar". He is never just Finn with her and it's always possesive. :)

Mimi said...

We seem to have a little one that prefers co-sleeping or being held for naps too. If you find any resources worthy of passing along I would love to know.

Good luck! :)

Anonymous said...

hi sadie!! what cute pics!! i don't have a lot of advice about sleep since we've always struggled with noah's sleeping. we worked really hard from 3 months on to get him to sleep for more than 30 minutes at a time, and we still have a boy who prefers mama to sleep next to him and to nurse around 2 am. we have both no cry sleep solution books that gina mentioned. good tips in there, i'd say.

i guess the most important sleep advice i can give is that if at any point either you or him are frustrated, overtired and upset...its probably best to just do what you can to get him or you to sleep and try again the next night. its NOT worth the frustration.

we have a pretty good bedtime routine, noah thrives on it. we do bath, massage, teeth, books and nursing before bed every night. scott and i take turns so that also helps. i highly recommend the massage, especially for finn's age, babies just thrive on skin to skin contact. lemme know if you want info on that.

it was great to talk with you the other day!